To Do List for When I am Dead

I am making a to do list for Loni and Mina to take care of after I die.

• They are to burn my beautiful new journal Mina gave me for Valentine's Day because it will be full of things for my eyes only.
• They are to make sure that Pastor D officiates at my memorial and if he is not available then there is to be no memorial or a memorial where only friends speak and no Pastor.
• There is a box I have to locate that will need to be destroyed, it is full of some bizarre paperwork from a case some of us worked on years ago.  Raymond wanted me to get rid of it long ago, but I haven't been able to find where I put it.  It isn't that it is pornographic or anything, but I wouldn't want someone to think it was mine.
• There is one person Loni is to notify personally as soon as possible.
• Loni has already been told what to do with my quilting items.

There will be more items added to the list as I think of them. |

To my knowledge I am not ill and dying, but it is never bad to have a plan.  My boys really would have no idea how to handle anything at this stage of their life, so I need backup. 

Hopefully when my time comes we will all be so old none of this matters, but just in case, I want a plan.